The Body – Brain Model of child development can only promise success and not happiness. This study posits that for happiness another aspect of human beings needs to be developed.

Purpose of Study

A 6 month study to evaluate the benefits of developing a child’s:

1. awareness,
2. ability to envision,
3. ability to communicate effectively and listen, and
4. ability for unconditionally loving behavior –

By developing parents’ skills in these 4 areas so they can model and teach them to their child. This study aims to provide real and usable skills to parents that will improve all their relationships.

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Confidential Parenting Survey – Stefan Deutsch, Gestalt Psychotherapist and Roberta Karant, Ph.D.

Please copy and paste the whole document, including address on the bottom, into an email - fill it out there and email to: stefandeutsch@msn.com

Using the following system, please fill out the form below using numbers 1 - 5 :

1 – Strongly agree,
2 – Agree,
3 – Neither agree nor disagree,
4 – Disagree,
5 – Strongly disagree

1. I believe success is more important than happiness. ___

2. I believe that success brings happiness. ___

3. I believe that many successful people are not happy. ___

4. I make it safe for my child to communicate by not judging him or her. ___

5. I am aware when I am critical or judge my child’s communications – rather then just hearing them. ___

6. My child is able to clearly verbalize his or her needs. ___

7. My child is not afraid to communicate his or her needs. ___

8. I am able to clearly verbalize my needs to my children. ___

9. I am able to clearly verbalize my needs to my spouse. ___

10. I am able to clearly verbalize my needs to my parents. ___

11. I am able to hear exactly what my child is saying without needing to respond. ___

12. My child is able to hear exactly what I am saying without needing to respond. ___

13. I am able to love my child unconditionally. ___

14. I am able to love my spouse unconditionally. ___

15. I am able to love my parents unconditionally. ___

16.I am able to love my siblings unconditionally. ___

17. My child is able to love me unconditionally. ___

18. My child is able to love my spouse unconditionally. ___

19. My child is able to love his or her siblings unconditionally. ___

20. My vision is to raise my child into a successful and happy adult. ___

Name ________________ Age____ No. of Children____ Marital Status______
e-mail _________________________________

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